In today’s society, man looks at the appearance not the substance. In dialogue on all questions of concern it is not what you say, it is the feeling the speaker leaves. So, if one says something right with bad manners that thing is considered wrong, while if one says something wrong in an appropriate manner that thing is considered true. This is the devil who splits reason and feelings instead of joining them. A friend of mine said: feelings are like a lens which brings into focus the reasons of things, this way we can distinguish good from evil and we are not cheated or confused.